The problem with making assumptions is that we believe they are the truth. We make an assumption. We misunderstand. We take it personally. Then we react by sending emotional poison with our word. This creates a whole big drama for nothing.
Don't judge situations you don't actually witness because many times people lie, blow things out of proportion, don't tell many important facts, tell only their perceptions, make the outside picture perfect to cover up the true perspective.
Assumption and lack of communication are the number one relationship killers. We all perceive differently. We& lived different lives. We have different views. Understand that before getting angry at someone for not believing what you believe.
Asking questions takes strength, communication is a key point if trust and love, always find the courage to clarify regardless of how it is received for that is part of being real and it is the place in which real love resides