Part of the " damnation of woman" owes it's power to the way in which African men, particularly those. In America, treat their woman. It is after women become vulnerable at the hands of men, that men label these women derogatorily
"Ten Reasons Why Abusers Don't Change" From "Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men" by Lundy Bancroft. This article offers invaluable insight as to why he's so resistant to change.
I know some of these weak, small males. I don't use the word man because they are not men. Real men protect women and stand true to their words and responsibilities. Life is better because of those men.