A recovery from narcissistic sociopath relationship abuse. Using guilt trips to control and manipulate their victim. Playing on their emotions. Putting their "spin" on the truth to confuse and manipulate. This behavior is abusive!
Be careful about telling a narcissist's victim that they have to stay in touch because the narcissist is their mother, father, grandparent, relative, etc. Not every biological parent is capable of being safe or loving.