"Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe, and have faith that everything will work out for the best." Just an extra pin to know that God has a plan and He will make it work for His glory!
"Would you like you, if you met you?" If the answer is yes then you are living the life you should be. If the answer is no, then you have some thing to think about changing cause your asking for more than yourself.