3 John - I had prayed this prayer for years for my children to continue in their walk with Him. Prayers, mistakes, more prayers and answered prayers for both of them. It sounds like what my parents did for me.
You can't do both: Either you worry, or you trust God. If you worry, you tell God, "I think you are LYING to me when you say you love and take care of all who honor You." - Original pin's great advice confirmed by Jesus: Let go, and let God