Don't let people label you. Been thinking about this how we take tests to see which box our personality fits but we are each so individual that no one fits perfectly so if you take them just remember that.
Worrying solves nothing and it drains your energy. of the time what you are worrying about never happens so you wasted time and energy worrying for nothing when that energy could be used getting you ahead! Stop Worrying!
If you really loved me like you said you did, you wouldn't be in the position to have to choose someone anyways. Since your struggling to make a decision allow me to make it easy for you, pick her cause with real love you wouldn't need a choice.